...then found out that hers had widened to 6 cm, and they prefer to operate at 5. ouch. so she'll be operated asap and will have a stent put it to support the plumbing. and now she'll be alright.
but how did the doctor find out...?
yes, me and my big mouth ! I asked him if he'd heard the sad news and apparently the phrase 'dropped dead in supposedly excellent health' set some bells ringing.